~The Man for ME~

This is slightly old, but since I'm just not starting this blog I would like for this to be one of my post. I wrote it back on October the 4th, so not to too long ago. It's about the kinda man that I want and deserve, so I hope you like it. If not oh well, because it's for ME anyways. lol
I want to meet a guy who wants to know how forever feels... Sounds like a song, doesn't it? lol Anyways, it's not so lets get to the point of this blog. I've had my fair share of relationships ending in heartache, pain, anger, and so on. I've also had my share of amazing times with some wonderful guys, but they apparently weren't the ONE. Just so everyone knows I don't have anything against any of my ex's for whatever reason it didn't work out. They may have hurt me and vise versa but life moves on and I still care about them very much. God only knows why though! lol There are a few who mean the absolute world to me still and always will. If I say I care and I give you a part of me you'd better believe I do and that wont change for anything. It's been alot of fun at times and hard as hell at times. So to say the least, I've learned from each and every one of the 'relationships' I've been in and I've also moved on from wasting my time on guys who are jerks. I'm sick of all their little games, it's just ridiculous. I'm not something or someone to take for granted anymore and never was for that matter, but people treated me that way. I am a firm believer in true love and I know there's a guy out there meant and made just for me, as I am made for him. If you think your that man then go on reading... I want a guy who values God, family, and friends. Family means alot to me, so I want a guy who was brought up by a pair of outstanding parents similar to mine. I want his friends to also enjoy being around me and for my friends to like him as well. A guy who takes care of his body and isn't into drugs, smoking and things like that. Someone that is confident, yet not cocky. I want a man who's strong in his beliefs, opinions, self-motivation, and physically strong would defiantly be a plus. hah not a requirement though... lol That's not to say he has to be stubborn but I certainly would be able to handle it if he was. Basically I want a man who knows what he wants. And I hope those desires are the same as mine, to fulfill our own goals and careers but eventually be a family. The whole package kids and everything, one day that is. A guy that works for what he has and isn't handed everything on a silver platter. He doesn't mind just hanging out and doing nothing every now and then, because just being with each other is enough. I want a guy who loves the southern life, country living and such. Because I love trucks, animals, John Deere, and anything rebel flag. That would just be a plus, not to much of a requirement I guess. lol I want a man who will support me even when he doesn't agree with me, just as I would for him. I want someone who loves me for everything I am and everything I'm not and wouldn't change anything about me. I want a man who is happy with himself before we're together and has confidence in the man he is. I also want him to enjoy some of the same things as I, not everything, but enough to enjoy spending time with me and what we do together. He understands that I need to just hang out with the girls sometimes and have my own space. He doesn't get jealous if I talk to another guy and realizes that I have friends who are also guys. A man who always treats me with the respect I deserve and because he was brought up that way. I don't want to be treated just like 'another girl' by some a**. Sorry I tend to get frustrated when I'm talking about some of this stuff. He's not attached to my hip, clingy, or insecure. He doesn't require a phone call every hour of the day to know where I am, who I'm with, and what I'm doing... he trust me. But a phone call a few times a day wouldn't be bad just to say 'hi and ask how my day was going'. A guy who appreciates the nice things I try to do for him and realizes it. The small things in life truly do mean the most sometimes. All in all I want a man who is looking for commitment and not just "the good times", or friends with benefits crap. I'm not saying I haven't been down that road because I have, but you gotta grow up eventually. Let me clarify something, when I say I'm looking for a 'commitment', I don't mean I'm going to rush into anything irrationally because I'm not at all ready for anything serious. Because like I said I've been through alot in the past 3 years, and I'm just taking it one day at a time. I want to get to know someone first and really just become good friends, and then see where it goes from there. That's the best thing to do! I've rushed into so many relationships and done to much to quickly that I really believe that's what ruins a relationship. There's defiantly more to a relationship that merely just being physical. I don't want that to happen with the next person I get close to. Life is just to short and we're still young, so why rush into things. You know? I want nothing more than to have someone by my side to share and enjoy life through an amazing relationship by two people who truly care about each other more than they care about their self and for him to want to be there for me. If all of this doesn't make sense or seems like too much to match then I can truthfully say your just probably not him. I just want one man to prove to me that they're not all the same and I'm not settling for anything less than what I deserve.

Subject to change at any given time. lol So far though, does anyone have any comments?